With every single person you come into contact, you are either giving love or you're not.And based on what you give, that is what you receive.
Give love to others through kindness,encouragement,support,gratitude,or any good feeling , and it comes back to you multiplied in every area of your life.
Look for the things you love in a relationship more than you notice negative things and it will appear as if something incredible has happened to the other person.
You have to be happy to receive the happy versions of other people !
The force of love presents you with a whole array of Personal Emotional Trainers, disguised as everyday people, but they are all training you to choose love !
Life is presenting every person and circumstance to you so you can choose what you love and what you don't love.When you react to anything you are reacting with your feelings, and as you do,you are choosing it !

Changing the way you feel is easy compared to running around trying to change the circumstances of the outside world.Change your feelings and the outside circumstances will change !

Whether you have emotional or physical symptoms, they are your body’s way of saying, “I’m not happy with how you are treating me.''
Healing begins when you love yourself unconditionally. Symptoms are an expression of your denial of the need for self-love. The first step of healing is to completely embrace who you are right now. When you neglect self-love, it’s reflected in your relationship with others, your health, your work, and every other aspect of your life. The LifeLine healing process helps you see how, when, where, and why you’ve neglected your need for self-love. It allows you to appreciate the journey that you’ve already traveled on and prepares you for the road ahead.
To heal, you must accept where and who you are and love yourself unconditionally for being a perfect creation. Here are a couple of analogies:
You have to deposit money in a bank before you can withdraw it.
When flight attendants recite safety presentations before a plane takes off, what do they say about the oxygen mask? “Put on your own mask first before assisting others.”
Self-love isn’t self-indulgence, selfishness, or self-centeredness. Self-love requires that you own who you are at this moment, without judgment. True happiness is discovered during the healing process; it’s a by-product of the journey, not the end result
Your thoughts create your reality.
If your reality is other than what you'd choose then you can be sure that you’re living a life of reaction and as a result your subconscious mind is helping you to awaken your destiny to whole new you.
Go for it!
Remember when excitement and fear meet at a crossroads you know that you're on the precipice of a life transformation.
Self-love is the only answer. 

To live your life with no regrets...
To reach for a dream and make it your own...
To be brave enough to invest a part of your heart in something real that brings you great pleasure...
To have a close circle of friends and the love of family to share all of life's special moments with...
To have a special sense of purpose and an inner strength that gives you the confidence to face each new day with a positive attitude.

Cindy Chuksudoon

Life holds no promises as to what will come your way.
You must search for your own ideals and work toward reaching them.
Life makes no guarantees as to what you’ll have.
It just gives you time to make choices and to take chances
and to discover whatever secrets that might come your way.
If you are willing to take the opportunities you are given
and utilize the abilities you have, you will constantly fill your life
with special moments and unforgettable times.

Friends are like Flowers

I am with you always

9 Greatest Motivational Quotes

Hold on to your dreams and never let them go.
Show the rest of the world how wonderful you are !
Give circumstances a chance , and give others the benefit of the doubt.
Wish on a star that shines in your sky.
Take on your problems one by one and work things out.
Rely on all the strength you have inside.
Let  loose of the sparkle and spirit that you sometimes try to hide.
Stay in touch with those who touch your life with love.
Look on the bright side and don't let the losers keep you from winning.
Be yourself, because you are filled with special qualities that have brought you this far and that will always see you through.
Keep your spirits up.

Make your heart happy , and let it reflect on everything you do !

May every day of your life bring you fresh hopes for tomorrow - because hope gives all of us our reason for trying.

May each new day bring a feeling of excitement , joy, and wonderful sense of expectation . Expect the best , and you'll get it.

May you find peace in simple things , because those are the ones that will always be there.

May you remember the good times and forget the sorrow and pain , for the good times will remind you of how special your life has been.

May you always feel secure and loved and know you are the best.

May you experience all the good things in life - the happiness of realizing your dreams , the joy of feeling worthwhile , and the satisfaction of knowing you've succeeded.

 May you find warmth in others , expressions of love and kindness , smiles that encourage you , and friends who are loyal and honest .

May you realize the importance of patience and accept others for what they are. With understanding and love , you'll find the good in every heart .

May you have faith in others and the ability to be vulnerable. Open your heart and really share the miracle of love and intimacy.

Above all , may you always have Positive Thoughts.

Sometimes we go through a season where we feel like every time we try to move forward, we hit a roadblock. Something happens that throws us off course. Be encouraged today because when we submit our life to the Lord, He promises to go before you. He is preparing a way for you. He is making your crooked places straight and your rough places smooth. You may be going through a difficult time right now, but it’s not the end. It’s only the beginning, and God has equipped you for this journey. Today, if you feel like you’re in a dry season, don’t look at your circumstances. Look at the promise of God! If you’ll keep speaking words of faith, God promises that He’ll anoint your head with oil and your cup will run over. That means you’ll be refreshed and anointed to do what He’s called you to do. God is preparing your path and equipping you for the journey. What do you need in order to keep moving forward? Start by checking your attitude. Don’t go around complaining or focused on the negative side of things. Put on an attitude of praise and thanksgiving. Thank Him for making your crooked places straight! Keep your eyes on Him and follow Him forward into the path of victory!

Lord in heaven, thank You for Your goodness in my life. Thank you for preparing the path for my life and making my crooked places straight. Thank You for restoring my soul and life and guiding me in everything I do. I submit every area of my life to You in Jesus’ name. Amen.

I love what I do,
I do what I love;
whether a poet,
a musician or
dreamer, thereof.

The greatest of great
is the change Love brings;
growth of mind and soul
and the song Passion sings.

The air of boredom
is no friend, indeed;
impact it makes not
on you or on me.

Find your true passion,
find your deep strength,
find your core value
in the time you expend.

'Cause at the day's end
reflection will arrive
to show you the impact
your Love had on life.http://smiledsoul.wordpress.com/

Imagine yourself to be the type of person you want to be , and then be it. You may have to let go of some bad habits and develop some more positive ones, but don't give up - for it is only in trying and persisting that dreams come true.
Expect changes to occur, and realize that the power to make those changes comes from within you.
Your thoughts and actions , your choices and decisions , and the way you spend your time determine who you are and who you will become.
You are capable and worthy of being and doing anything. You just need the discipline and determination to see it through. It won't come instantly , and you may backslide from time to time ,but don't let that deter you.
Never give up.
Life is an ever - changing process , and nothing is final. Therefore , each moment and every new day is a chance to begin anew.

Barbara Cage.positivethoughts.com

Be true to the light that is deep within you. Hold on to your joy for life. Keep good thoughts in your mind and good feelings in your heart. Keep love in your life , and you will find the love and light in everyone.
Be giving , forgiving , patient , and kind. Have faith in yourself. Be your own best friend , and listen to the voice that tells you to be your best self.
Be true to yourself in the paths that you choose. Follow your talents and passions ; don't take the roads others say you must follow because they are the most popular. Take the paths where your talents will thrive - the ones that will keep your spirits alive with enthusiasm and everlasting joy.

Most of all , never forget that there is no brighter light than the one within you. Keep on being true to yourself. Keep shining your light on others so they will have a reason to smile. Follow your inner light to your own personal greatness , and remember that you are admired and loved just as you are.

Breathing Prayer

 Sometimes I experience this and thought I would share: the roiling inner whirlwind, the blinding, gut-wrenching, confusion-making state of being that takes over our hearts and minds from time to time.
When anxiety’s got you in its grip, it’s hard to avoid worrying about tomorrow. It’s difficult to adopt a Jeremiah 29:11 attitude. Sometimes it seems all we can do is shove our fears heavenward and hope God takes them away. I think there’s a better way.
Anxiety works on a very primitive level. It has a physical component which we can counteract by applying a physical remedy. Several years ago I learned that there’s actually a right way to breathe to reduce anxiety and stress. The Harvard Health Blog calls it breath control. The technique has certain similarities with prayerful meditation, and since it’s completely compatible with faith, I personally call it “breathing prayer.”
Try this: Close your eyes and inhale slowly, imagining pulling the Spirit in so fully that it fills every pore of your body. Make sure your stomach expands; you want to be pregnant with peace. Exhale slowly through your nose.
You can pray while you do this (though if you’re anxious when you start, you probably won’t think of it until after a few breaths, when your head starts to clear). Simple prayers work best:
While inhaling                          While exhaling
Come Holy Spirit…                  fill my heart
Lord Jesus…                            grant me your peace
Lord Jesus…                            I love you

If you practice when you’re not in the throes of wild anxiety, it will be easier to pray this way when you are. But “breathing prayer” is a good addition to any regular prayer time. Anything that clears the head and calms the body frees us up to hear God better. And that’s what prayer is all about.

If you want peace, stop fighting. If you want peace of mind, stop fighting with your thoughts. ~Peter McWilliams

Peace is

…a world that is of love and an enjoyable place to live.

Peace is

…a calm spirit.

Peace is

…the freedom to “be” and express Self openly.

Peace is

…a serene mind.

Peace is

…strength.

Peace is

…contagious.

Peace is

…a choice.

friend

But if the while I think on thee, dear friend,All losses are restored and sorrows end.~William Shakespeare

I value each and every FRIEND that has entered and left my life. I hold the wonderful lessons and reflections their presence gave and does give. I read that one way the Soul is expressed is through human contact, relationships that are formed and how those relationships are tended and cared for. Could it be that the care we give to our FRIENDS reflects the care we give to our own Soul and essence? Something to ponder and consider. Friendship provides us the opportunity to see and feel the cracks within, but to also strengthen and heal those cracks. A FRIEND is someone I can explore my limits, evolve, and be a genuine "me." As the writer of another blog so eloquently shared: "Friends are mirrors into which we glimpse each other's souls, and our own."
AFFIRMATION: Today, I am grateful for each and every FRIEND, past, present and future, and for the gift of their existence in this magnanimous Universe.